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recently, i told someone that she should stop complaining and stop criticising other people. i thought she would listen to me but after a few days, i realised that it was not going to be easy at all for her. i don't know. why has complaining and criticising others become so ingrained in you behaviour, gals? and that you find it hard not to find fault? why do you guys look for negative qualities in people and situations? why are you guys more often pessimistic than optimistic? people love to criticise others because it gives them a sense of superiority and power. criticising someone fulfils a need to be right. if i can find fault with you, it means i am smarter than you, right? ALL FUCKING CRAP! IT JUST SHOWS HOW IMMATURE YOU ARE! IT JUST MEANS YOU ARE AN EGOTISTICAL PRIG. it is easy to be negative and critical but much harder to be positive. still, it comes down to one's mindset. you guys can actually discipline yourselves to stop finding fault. why did i choose to cahnge my behaviour in the first place? because i did not want people to think of me as someone who is always complaining and i was concerned that i would potray a negative image of myself to the world. i would rather project myself as someone who is happy and positive, whom people are happy to see than someone they dread. you guys really should try to find the good in people and situations, to find the little things that are worthy of appreciation around you guys. anyway, whatever i just blogged is in general. not pin pointing to anyone but if i did hit a nail on you guys head.. then, i'd give myself a round of applause. time to change, grow up, kiddos! before i end this post, i would like to say a big thank to liang dingzi. thank you for the inspirations. i feel satisfied.
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